It's going to be my first time going to Disneyland on August 10 th - August 12. I need help. ? I am going to A?

I am going to go to Disneyland resort in Anaheim,CA.I am 13 so I'm intrested in some rides like nemo.I need someone to tell me which hotel should i go to and what rides should I or should i not go on,and where i should go.I am not going to stay in the paradise pier(dont ask why,but if you love it and encourage me to stay there,i will think about it)Please ANWSER!If you have been there tell me how it was.Please dont tell me ''look at the disney site,or give me links to the site bc i saw it.I need discounts and coupons also,so if you can,find one or some and show me it.It will help.Thank you so much!!!